Arthur Brooks is a social scientist, writer, speaker. He teaches MBA ers at Harvard Business School and explains to his his students why they aren't happy even though they are 1% ers destined for fame, glory, $$$.
He believes women want to be adored while men want to be admired. I'm not sure I agree with his binary distinctions but I do think that adoration isn't earned, necessarily, while admiration is based on actions and achievements.
I think its been proven that women judge men on how well they will provide for loved ones, especially children. Kindness is a major factor, too. Men, being the less deep creatures, judge women based on surface appeal. Lesbians are a mystery. Gay men have to distinguish between wanting to be with their object of desire or if they want to be him. It's an additional confusing puzzlement.
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